Scorpios and Shadow Work

One thing I've discovered throughout the years is that I have a knack for revealing people's shadow sides, almost effortlessly. As I continue to learn and grow, I realize this is my Scorpio nature in action. It happens so naturally that I often don't even realize I'm doing it. This sometimes leads to people getting mad or just ghosting me. Some find it strange, while others are incredibly grateful.

Scorpios have a natural inclination for exploring the depths of human emotions, making them highly perceptive and intuitive. Scorpio is also known for its deep, intense, and transformative nature, making it an ideal sign for engaging in shadow work. Shadow work involves exploring and integrating the hidden or repressed parts of ourselves, often revealing deep-seated fears, desires, and emotions.

So why would these people get mad at me or stop talking to me? I've learned that those who get upset or disappear are simply not ready to work on their shadow side because it requires confronting deeply ingrained aspects of themselves that are often rooted in early sensory and emotional experiences. As we all know, from birth, our ego is shaped by our interactions with the world through our senses, creating a framework for how we perceive and react to our environment. This process forms our conscious identity while simultaneously pushing less desirable traits and experiences into the unconscious. Addressing the shadow side means revisiting and integrating these hidden parts, which can be uncomfortable and challenging. It forces individuals to face fears, insecurities, and past traumas that their ego has long sought to avoid. As a result, many people resist or are not prepared for the intense self-reflection and emotional labor required for shadow work, preferring to maintain their current self-perception rather than disrupt their established sense of identity.

With that said, I believe in some cases people don't realize that is what was happening, so in turn take those icky feelings and project them on to me. Their Ego tells them "Ew she makes me mad, she this...,she that....How dare she." and that particular person actually thinks it's just a thought, they dont realize its their Ego.

Now let me tell you a story of an example of how I unknowingly at times pull the shadow side out of people. So I meet someone who I think is pretty interesting and everything they do and say is just so flawless. I think to myself 🤔 what is this? Intuitively I felt its someone being human and are they really perfect? No, this person is totally not perfect. Which I know nobody's perfect but you know what I mean.

As time goes on my intuition nags at me. This person is soo hiding something. Something is not right, someone is not being honest. I go back and forth between, am I just nosey, lol, or am I on to something. I soon start calling the person out on their shit. As politely as I could. I got the no, not me, nothing is out of ordinary here song and dance. After a period of back and forth this person finally cracks. Just enough. Right away I start with my curiosity. {Now is this curiousity or would this be an undefined feeling a Scorpio gets when pulling the shadow out? }

Before long one thing after another is revealed. It was like a domino effect, like one domino hits the other a month later, then a month later another. Along the way this person is looking at me like wtf are you doing to me? I start getting the "you" this, "you" that, "you you you". I'm like uhhhhh I am just curious, also what makes you want to do that particular thing that you do? Like when did that start? Oh interesting, also when this event or person hurt you..... 😂 I mean yeah that sounds nosey I guess. I suppose it depends on how you look at it and about where you stand vibrationally. Please note that this is a person very close to me so I wouldn't just have this conversation with anyone right off the bat. Now if that is the direction the other person is taking it then I may fold into it. Scorpios are also well known for their sitting back and observing when first getting to know someone. Just like an actual scorpion and if there is a threat the stinger comes out 💁‍♀️.

So yeah, this person has been in and continues counseling, and realizes the root of most issues. They teeter between understanding that and working on it vs not wanting to own up or deal with it. This is the 4th Dimension and the 3rd Dimension. You all have to read Teri Martells Chapter named Multi-Dimensional Realities in her forthcoming book! She totally explains these dimensions in this chapter.

To conclude (I'm going to get fancy again) as a mysterious and intuitive Scorpio, I apparently possess a unique ability to unveil the shadow side in others. This talent arises from my intrinsic connection to the depths of the human psyche and its acute sensitivity to hidden emotions. I guess my presence naturally encourages people to confront and reveal parts of themselves they typically keep concealed. This process often unfolds without my conscious intent, driven by my Scorpio's profound intuition and magnetic energy. While reactions to this uncovering vary, from appreciation to resistance, it is clear that my Scorpio traits enable me to catalyze significant moments of self-awareness and transformation.

If you see me out and befriend me along the way, please know I will not intentionally pull out your shadow side. I really can be oblivious at times lol. Also sorry ahead of time if that were to happen and you end up angry over it as it is not my intention 🙂.

During Scorpio season, the energies are particularly conducive to this introspective process. Scorpio's association with transformation, death, and rebirth can facilitate profound personal growth and healing. Here are some insights and practices for doing shadow work with Scorpio energy (referenced by several astrological websites as noted below):

1. Understanding Shadow Work: Shadow work, a concept popularized by Carl Jung, is about acknowledging and integrating the parts of ourselves that we typically hide or reject. These can include negative emotions, past traumas, and undesirable traits. The goal is to bring these aspects into the light, allowing for healing and self-acceptance​ (Planetary Update by Horoscope.com)​​ (Cosmic Creator)​.

2. Scorpio’s Role: Scorpio's influence is potent during its season, emphasizing themes of power, mystery, and transformation. This sign encourages diving deep into the subconscious to confront and transform these shadow aspects. Scorpio's energy is about facing the dark to emerge stronger and more integrated​ (Cosmic Creator)​.

3. Rituals and Practices:

• New Moon in Scorpio Ritual: A powerful time for shadow work is during the New Moon in Scorpio. A suggested ritual includes lighting a black candle for protection, meditating to invite your shadow self, and practicing automatic writing to capture any insights. This process helps to acknowledge and work through buried emotions and thoughts​ (Planetary Update by Horoscope.com)​.

• Daily Practices: Regular meditation and journaling can help maintain a connection with your shadow self. Reflecting on your reactions and emotions throughout the day can reveal hidden aspects of your psyche. Visualization techniques, such as imagining a ring of light for protection, can provide a safe space to explore deeper emotions​ (Planetary Update by Horoscope.com)​.

1. Affirmations and Reflection: Affirmations can reinforce your shadow work. For example, during Scorpio season, you might use affirmations like, "The darkness doesn’t hide answers from me. I am one with my whole self. Diving deeper gives me the tools to swim the entire ocean." This helps in embracing all parts of yourself without judgment​ (Planetary Update by Horoscope.com)​.

Engaging in shadow work during Scorpio season can be challenging but ultimately rewarding. The intense and transformative energy of Scorpio can guide you through a metaphorical ego death, leading to rebirth and greater self-awareness. By integrating your shadow, you can achieve a more balanced and whole sense of self.